effective way to get it?

[alphagirl]

Which brainwaves are better for Empathy, Alpha or tetha? When I m at this leve, how do I connect with the person I want to Empathize, always visualization? How I know that Im getting his feelings? Thank you

[Lady Takara]

I'm not really sure about the brain levels you could try googling it. Visualization is as good and simple as anyway to connect to a person or placing your hands on them (but that isn't always approperiate).

The difficult is knowing what are you feeling and what are the other person's/people's feeling. You just have to know yourself well. Sometimes it isn't always easy to tell, but like if it's an emotion you weren't feeling before, like you are randomly angry, depressed, or sad, or crooning from feeling sick that wasn't like before, you know it's some else's. Be centered and grounded in yourself.

Make sure to cut off all 'psychic'/'psi' links to that person. A simple thing to do is to make a choping motion with your hands and arms downard and then brush off your arms.

[eggsilikeskitzo7]

I agree with Lady Takara. It is difficult to distinguish your emotions from the emotions of your target. Something i do is visualize what i am receiving as colors or objects. Trying that though, might be a bit challenging. A good start is to find a trusted friend and meditate for a while. After your mind is blank, attempt to connect with that person. You should feel emotions as if they were your own, but they will not be created by you. Good Luck!

[Aanlaien]

Hmm...I didn't think Empathy was a talent. I've had this as long as I can remember. If somebody is feeling upset, I get upset with them. If something bad happens outside around my neighborhood, I feel it, and if people are happy and excited I am as well. I wonder how I could have delevoped this on an accident. If anybody has a common story like mine, please share it with me.

[JediKaren]

oh it very much is. Let me recommend you these articles: www.freewebs.com/jedikaren/empathy.htm

[Aanlaien]

The way I have my empathy/telepathy set up is special. You see I didn't get along well with crowds of more than 6 at a time, because I was going through EVERYONES thoughts and feelings at the same time. Try Christmas with 20 people all wondering what they're going to get for Christmas. X.X I could go on all day about that. So what I did is I toned it down a bit to who I'm looking at. I can teach you ways to observe people in order to find out how they're feeling. Then it will develop more precisively later on. Here's what I look at:

1. Eyes - People's eyes tell you many things. It's the gateway into their soul. There's a trick I learned about people's eyes that tells me if they are searching, or creating(lying) If you or anybody wants that information, you're going to have to send me a private message because I want it to be a well kept secret.

2. Facial expression - Watch the person's face and if they have a dull look on their face, they're probably in la-la land, I've been there many times myself. ^.^ If they have a happy expression, it usually means they are generally happy, or they are thinking something that excites them. Same with sad, angry, or concerned. And I've tested it out myself, it works to actually tell somebody that you know they are feeling weird about something, and it usually opens them up.

3. Speaking - Listening is very important. When somebody speaks to you, or somebody else, the words alone sometimes tells you how they feel. If they seem like they are hiding something, they probably are. Listen to the word "Don't" because sometimes they are trying to tell you to think about what you're not supposed to be thinking about. For example, If I say "Don't think of a pink elephant" Immediately you're going to think about a pink elephant, in order to understand what I'm telling you NOT to think about. So here's another example, if I say "Don't forget your keys" Most likely, you're going to forget your keys," because you're thinking about what you're supposed to be forgetting about. And one more thing. Listen to the tone of their voice. If they have a nice calm tone, it means they are at peace. If they have a tense voice and they talk faster than normal, it means something is bothering them, or something has been bothering them for years. It's a good thing to think about when you're going to get into a relationship.

4. If somebody is looking directly at you, it just means they're trying to communicate with you. Have you ever seen a woman who has emotionally bonded with her dog? The dog stays silent, but the woman knows exactly what the dog is thinking at all times. She knows when he's hungry, she knows when he needs to go to the bathroom. Etc.

Anyways, I'm sorry for the message being so huge, there's a lot of information I know, and this covers just about everything that I know on Empathy/telepathy. The way I got to be so obervant was because when I was little, I just sat and watched everything. While I was sucking on my index finger of course. Lol. Good luck, and if you have any questions, just ask. Hope this helped.

[Aanlaien]

Also, I didn't realize you haven't been online since July 26th. Lol. So feel free everybody else to try my method. And if you ever do come back Alphagirl, make sure to get this info.

[empath999]

Wow i've never heard of such and anvaced empath level

[Aanlaien]

Well, I found something out about this power. Not only can you learn it, but you can also customize it. This is the way I have my empathy worked out, because I'm supposedly supposed to be really gifted with just stuff. I just started learning about it. I spoke to a spiritual councelor, and she told me I was psychic. My father is psychic as well.

My parents used to fight ALL the time when I was a child, so I grew up knowing when somebody was upset, even if I'm in a different room, I know when somebody is in my house. who it is, and how they feel. The time I spent growing up with my parents, it helps me know when somebody's feelings grow stronger, and when everything is okay.

If you have any questions, don't mind asking me. I'm always able to help. Thanks.